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Thanks for inroiductng a little rationality into this debate.
Well put, sir, well put. I'll cetlniary make note of that.
na pw k gw thn lalakia mou?egw den kapzinw... giati den kapniza k pote afou h olh ierotelestia mou fainotan xazh... roufaw kapno - fysaw kapno... twra to kata poso sas eyxaristei olo ayto mporeite na to gnwrizete mono eseis ... afou emena h empeiria mou einai apo mikrh ews elaxisth. (den 3erw ti ousies mporei na apeley8erwnontai ston egkefalo kai sas prosferoun ikanopoihsh h ean einai apokleistika k mono 8ema e8ismou ... h syndyasmos kai twn dyo)gnwrizw omws oti kai h megalh taxythta -odhgwntas- apeley8erwnei andrenalinh! opote mporw kai egw "ntailiki" na odhgw san trellos stous dromous (kai oxi se eidika diamorfwmenes pistes agwnwn) me poly pi8ano kindyno na sterhsw thn swmatikh akaireothta h kai thn zwh kapoiwn allwn anypopsiastwn odhgwn h pezwn.an loipon apodedeigmena to tsigaro skotwnei k oxi mono tous kapnistes alla k tous trigyrw ... den katalavainw giati na mhn mpei se leitoyrgia o sygkekrimenos nomos.epishs 8a h8ela na epishmanw to gegonos ... oti oso fasistikos einai o nomos pou apagoreyei to kapnisma se dhmosious xwrous ... toso fasistikh htan kai h e3askhsh tou kapnismatos se xwrous opou vriskontai k mh kapnistes - epi seira etwn hdh ... (na anaferw oti epeidh oi perissoteroi filoi mou kapnizan h k kapnizoun pote den eixa provlhma me to zhthma...kai as ginotan tekes to studio h to saloni mou)sthn douleia omws akoma k meta tis apagoreyseis polloi ligoi deixnoun na symorfwnontai k enw den tous to epishmainw o idios ... den exoun thn eyais8hsia na kapnisoun to elaxisto pou mporoun etsi wste na mhn enoxloun k tous mh kapnizontes.synexizoun na kapnizoun san fougara... (starxidismos toulaxiston) - ap ayto ormwmenos egrapsa ta parapanw !filia kai kofte to gia to diko sas kalo k oxi epeidh sas to apagoreyoun !gabriel r.
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That's way the beetsst answer so far!
that she was traumatized by her paetrns drug use.)The problems here can be divided into 3 areas:1. the wife is upset with her husband's pot smoking.2. there seems to have been NO plan, or thought ( by either of them ) of how to deal with the reality of pot smoking when you have a child. If you are going to engage in this behavior, or really any behavior that goes against dominant discourse you need to have a plan on how to address this. To not do so is irresponsible. 3. The wife is, rightly, concerned about the father's behavior while high around the child.1. First they need to find a way to come to some agreement on smoking pot. There may be room for compromise here or there may not be. Perhaps smoking up less often: only weekends, only weekdays, every other day, etc. Or he may just have to give it up (perhaps except for social occasions) for family harmony, or she may just have to accept it as something he enjoys and that she needs to learn how to accept. The key is they both need to not just tolerate but really accept whatever they agree on. This doesn't mean it can't ever change but the agreement needs to be entered into without the expectation that the other one will eventually change his or her mind. Alternate ways of relaxation so that the mother is not the one who is always the responsible one could be a great idea. Maybe he smokes up Monday, Wednesday and Friday and the three do yoga Tuesday and Thursday or vice-versa. Or they decide to go jogging as a family every day at 530 or he goes alone Maybe he smokes pot and then they all do yoga whatever. What is clear is that if the stress is not just an excuse it needs to be addressed.A child does mean changes and the father needs to accept that. But a child should not be an excuse for shifts in values that may not have anything to do with the well being of the child. Mom needs to ask herself does she genuinely fear for her child's safety, is he so high he can't take care of the child? Is the father not fulfilling his parental obligations because he's always taking a post marijuana nap? OR is she using the child as an excuse to pressure him into changing a behavior she doesn't agree with and one that embarrasses her? 2. If they come to some agreement about pot smoking where some smoking is still going on; then they need to address the second problem. They need to be honest with their child, in an age appropriate way. They may begin by explaining that dad is doing something adults sometimes enjoy doing, but that this will make children sick, which is why he can't do it around you; just the way alcohol makes children sick or peanuts make some children sick . If pot use is not accepted in your community, you don't need to tell your child his dad is smoking pot in those words until he is older. As the child gets older, you will need to be more open about the father's drug use; I'm not suggesting you should share drugs or smoke in front of the child; just that it should be admitted that the father smokes pot. If it is hidden the child will feel the hypocrisy of the situation and either hide any activity (including potential drug use) that he feels his paetrns may not approve of. Or he may be embarrassed of his father's drug use, seeing it as something shameful that needs to be hidden. Neither is a healthy state for the child. If the father feels this is something that no child should know that he is doing then he should not be using drugs. If he is okay with sharing the fact that he smokes pot; he should just keep it out of the child's way. 3. The third issue is the mental and physical safety of child with father when dad is high. This all depends on who else is with the child, how high the father is, and how pot affects him. If you can have a glass of wine around your child then you should be able to be around your child having smoked a bit of pot. You wouldn't want to be drunk around your child, you don't want to be baked out of your mind with your child. There should always be someone who is fully capable of caring for the child, and this is not just the day to day caring but sober enough to handle a real emergency too. It should not always fall on the mother to be this person; this turns her into the parent for both of them. As for the mental well being. Being a bit goofy around the child on occasion is okay but it can't be too goofy or too often. Whether you should be around your child after smoking depends on how pot affects you. Just as some people become uncomfortably jocose or morose after just one glass of alcohol while another person may talk a bit more than usual and another may have no noticeable change at all. If the father tells more jokes or is a bit more quiet or is exactly the same then there is no issue. But if he is terribly groggy, or fascinated by the smell of lemons for hours then it's an issue. To the wife: Before you head to al-anon make sure you have tried to work this out with your husband. Once you are on opposing camps it will be that much harder to reach an agreement. If you truly believe your husband has an addiction, and that this addiction is causing him some kind of harm ( your change of heart on his pot using creating fights doesn't count as a problem, but problems that his pot smoking creates in your relationship because he isn't present would count , as would making you have to take the responsibility in child rearing etc.)To the husband: Try to see how your drug use is upsetting your wife. Is it worth the tensions it's creating? Does your smoking up make your wife have to be the responsible one in the relationship, or the one who always has to be sober for the child? Make sure you aren't putting her in the situation where she always HAS to be sober. If that is her preference that is fine, but there should be times when she has the freedom not to be sober EVEN if she never has or never would drink, smoke up etc. She needs to not always be living as the designated parent .
Of course I aseewrnd your nonsense bermiefluff. First I told you to stop thinking like a phony-British socialist and try to understand the basics of investing in a competitive environment, as in the case of major NCAA sports. I laid-out for you the positive progression of the 3-year ROI on 8/26 above feel free to take another go at it mate. As for RU football never winning anything gee, just a modicum of Google searching easily makes a mockery of that witless remark of yours: (ii) 2 Bowl wins in last 3 years (ii) top APR football rankings, and (iii) while 2010 was not a winning season, 2011 RU football recruiting ranked among the best in conference. And the Mike Rice investment has taken RU hoops out of the BE cellar in his first year, and very easily could’ve won two games in the BE tourney if the refs didn’t blow the SJU game, which in turn would have put the team right on NIT bubble. It’s about time you get your head out of the sand.As for the Bloomberg dweebs trying to write a sports story, it’s obvious they should stick to their financial reporting where they do a good job quoting the real pros in the business, but look foolish in their own editorials. How idiotic to compare RU’s 3-year investment in big-time sports to the 5 or 6 decades of investments made down at Univ of Texas—that doesn’t even pass the laugh test. And heaven forbid the left-leaning big government-loving Bloomie organization take NJ politicians to task for all the cutbacks to state higher education spending at the expense of all the corruption and misspending, double and triple-dipping politician pensions, etc. etc. etc. Or what if Booberg writers had the guts to take on the bloated college administrations like the Wall Street Journal has? Come on, that article has already been proven to be useless. No one outside of Trenton takes its premise even half-seriously, and those corrupt politicians will only care if they can use the trash to divert more money out of the state university to their pet projects and line their own pockets. Man bermiefluff, your bizarre pathological hatred for RU really makes you sound ridiculously uninformed despite your use of the British thesaurus.
Deadly accurate awsner. You've hit the bullseye!